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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

15.06.2025 02:00

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

She was in good health!

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Why would you think you're fit to be a model?

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

One cannot live in the past .

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

I found out I have cancer—I have not told my family. We can’t afford the treatment anyway. Should I just say nothing and let nature take its course?

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Can a 40-year-old date a 20-year-old?

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Comes on , in middle age.

How do we write and pronounce "it's my pleasure" in Italian?

Im still living with it.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

What do gang stalkers want?

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

It was going to be , some day.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

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And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Would this be the day?

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

When was the last time you had sex with someone much older than yourself?

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

What did i know ?

But it wasn’t much.

How did you know you weren't the narc?

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Is it common for Americans to feel "trapped" due to the size and distance of their country from other countries/continents? Is this feeling an exaggeration or a reality?

I couldn’t, believe it.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

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As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

I know ,a lot about trauma.

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Especially a lifetime of it.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

So, i spoilt her more .

I think the readers, may guess!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

This is how, and why children get BPD.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

Ive learnt so much.

My family never makes their pension either.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

(And it was in our own minds.)

Why did i forgive my father ?

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

I don,t even have a pension.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

Who then, do I blame.?

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

But ive been too sick for many years..

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

And who doesn’t know suffering?

So whats the point in blame.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

I was very sick at this time too.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I could never make a relationship work though!

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

He knew the spot.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

I never cut or harmed myself..

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

I was seconnd youngest,

My mum and dad in the seventies!

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I said to her

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

I will be 64.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

She loved him until the end.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

But, we were locked up after school.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I was 9 years of age.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

I have no regrets .

I write beautiful poetry .

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Was to survive, this bastard.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Im dying but, im not bitter.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

We were not on the streets..

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I did it because my mum asked me too!

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I was scared of men, in general

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

When she asked me how she looked .

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Put me off passion for life!!

All the time i was locked up.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

As i do to all so called friends.?

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

This is soul school!.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

My life is so biszare .

He was dying to do it , i knew.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

He resisted the act ,that day.

I waited trembling.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

And i lived it daily.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

We all went to grammer schools

She wouldn,t have been !

She found it foreign!.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

She married twice! .